Diane Bolden’s Synchronistically Speaking

Believing Is Seeing

The other day my kids had a play date with some friends and I overheard part of a conversation where one of them was telling the other that Santa Claus wasn’t real.  I heard my eight year old son vehemently defending the jolly old man, with elaborate explanations of why that which wasn’t easily proven was worthy of believing in anyway.  I had to laugh, as I flashed back to one of my own experiences with a little girl in my neighborhood who made fun of me for believing that a fat man in a red coat actually came down my chimney every year.  I was so mad that when she wasn’t looking, I broke all her crayons and put them back in the box (and spent the rest of that season worrying that my little passive aggressive outburst put me on the naughty list).

I have since learned that it is okay if everyone doesn’t believe the same things I do, and my son will learn that too.  But he is the one who taught me something that day.   I was buoyed by his unwavering belief and faith in something he’s never really seen and inspired by his example.   Regardless of what each child ends up getting for Christmas, I can’t help but believe that those who trust in something magical will experience that magic in ways the skeptics will not.  And I think the same is true in life.   

There will always be someone around to tell us what we want to create or accomplish cannot be done.  And there will also always be people who upon being so told, will do it anyway.  Their faith, determination and belief in something they have yet to see will allow them to persevere until their dreams become reality.   People in this second category do not need to engage in debates, for their actions are sufficient not only as a testament to what they believe, but as an inspiration to others who may begin to suspend their own doubt about what is possible.

One of my favorite authors on personal and spiritual growth, Alan Cohen, once said “You do not need to get others to believe in your truth.  You just need to live it.” 

In a world where much is uncertain and the old success formulas no longer seem to work, I believe it is more important than ever to trust in what we know to be true in hearts, even if our minds cannot figure it all out.  It may go against what we have been conditioned to believe, see and do, and perhaps this makes it even more important.  To bust out of old paradigms that keep us from realizing our greatness, perhaps we need to stop questioning what is possible and start challenging our limits instead.   As we do, we will begin to make manifest that which we previously only dreamed was possible, and through our example show others the way to rise.

I wish you a beautiful, sacred holiday and the realization of your most treasured dreams in the coming New Year.

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